A state of quietness Tea is said to be the way. This is because it is something one learns to appreciate through feeling, not through verbal instructions. If a person maintains a state of quietness, only then will one appreciate the quietness inherent in tea. Lu Yu, The Book of Tea silenceunderstanding
Do not propose solutions A Quote “Do not propose solutions until the problem has been discussed as thoroughly as possible without suggesting any. I have often used this edict with groups I have led—particularly when they face a very tough problem, which is when group members are most apt to propose solutions immediately.” — Norman R.F. Maier Rationality: From AI to ZombiesLet the goals suggest themselves problems